Self-awareness in healing turns out to be key; it's a little difficult to hit a moving target otherwise. While practitioners, particularly those with an Eastern orientation, might espouse the saying that "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear" -- healing also takes a willingness to look at your life squarely and realize what about it isn't working. That turns out to be the first and most necessary step along the path to wellness.
Another way of saying that is:
"You never find yourself until you face the truth." -- Pearl Bailey, American actress and singer.